Every year around Father's Day, the search starts all over again. The socks and the aftershave have often been given already, so what do you give this time? Dads tend to share their wishes less readily than mums. "Don't go to any trouble" is a familiar response, while a well-thought-out gift is actually hugely appreciated. It helps to look at what dad likes to do in his free time, rather than hunting for the most obvious present.
Classic, but always a hit
For the dad who loves good food: a nice bottle of wine, whisky or local beer, perhaps paired with some cheese or chocolate.
Does he enjoy DIY or gardening? Then tools, plants or something for the barbecue usually go down well.
A good book by a favourite author, or on a subject he has talked about for years but never actually bought a book about.
Something more original
An experience instead of an object: a day of go-karting, a tour of a favourite football club, or a beer-brewing workshop.
A day out with the children, without the rest of the family, is hugely appreciated by many dads.
A subscription to something he currently "can't find the time" for, such as a sports club or a course.
The most personal gift
Alongside a physical gift, there is something that touches every dad: hearing why he is so appreciated. Through a wish page for Father's Day, children, grandchildren and other relatives leave personal messages, photos and videos. Short clips of little children saying something sweet to dad or grandad tend to bring the most emotion. An inexpensive gift combined with a page like that often feels more personal than an expensive gift on its own, because dad can see that time and care went into it.
The perfect Father's Day gift does not exist, but a gift given with care does. And that, in the end, lasts longer than a box of aftershave.
Frequently asked questions
What if dad says he doesn't need anything?
Then think of something that adds time rather than stuff. A day out together, or simply an evening without distractions where there is real time to catch up. That is often exactly what is appreciated by dads who say they "don't need anything".
Does an inexpensive gift count for less?
Not if there is thought behind it. A handwritten card, a video from the grandchildren or a day spent together weigh more for most dads than the price tag.
What is an appropriate budget for a Father's Day gift?
For children still living at home, 20 to 50 euros is typical. For a joint gift from several children together, such as an experience, that often rises to 75 to 100 euros.
